Why not to blend in, and why you should stay in your lane. -“I obviously could Never blend in even if I tried! “ By Jaliyah Ingram

Let me share with you a little bit of my story of how I used this for my benefit!
I’m so grateful to have been instilled the importance of my uniqueness and beauty. My mother and nana did an amazing job raising me to know how rare and luxury my beauty was. The negative opinions of me never aligned!

Instill this in your children from the beginning, practice positive talk with them about theirselves. So there inner voice speaks louder and prouder than any outside negative opinions.

My entire life I have been bullied and laughed at by what are only insecure people that can’t find the beauty or love within themselves.
All I know is that I was anointed with a unique gift and that God continues to tell me to share the love of myself OUTLOUD !
When others are around me they really get a dose of what I go through , and have been going through my whole life. Whenever I step foot into the public eye. They see it but I’m blind to it!
I simply choose to focus on , all the people that have taken the time out to stop me and appreciate my beauty in a positive light. All the people that have never prejudged me and treated me like a human from the start. how they see the beauty and light that shines bright!

If you struggle with low self esteem!
Try starting these 3 Simple Things :
👑 Tell / think to yourself when you look in the mirror how beautiful and unique you are.
👑 Don’t compare yourself to anyone!
👑 Point out everything that you LOVE about yourself.

Listen it’s not easy being covered in nevi from head to toe and living with all that comes with it. I don’t focus on what I can’t control about myself. Only what I can. & you should to

#confidence #nevi #selflove
#blackwomeninluxury
#blackgirlluxury


Share this post


Leave a comment